I’m Nat (34) my husband is Braulio (31) we meet in 2000 when Braulio
was in the US Marines. We tried and survived a long distance
relationship and married in 2002. Braulio still had some time left in
the Marines so after our wedding he flew back to where he was stationed,
finally joining me in Dec 2002. I thought this time apart would be the
hardest part of our relationship, however, this was a piece of cake
compared to what we both would endure trying to bring a child into our
lives. After our time apart, we spent our first year enjoying each other
and decided to seriously start trying in Dec 2003, after all we were
young, and surely we had time on our side?
In 2004, I had a
cervical cancer scare that required surgery as well as putting TTC on
hold. Once we were given the all clear, we were back to trying, but when
still no baby by the end of 2005, we decided to seek help. We saw our
fertility specialist in Jan 06 when I was diagnosed with premature
ovarian failure. The first IVF opening was for Sept that year, so in the
wait time, we completed 4 rounds of IUI and even more attempts at well
time intercourse, all with no success.
We have since attempted 9
rounds of IVF, each time getting only 1 or 2 viable eggs, so never
enough for a frozen transfer at a later date. Sadly, none of our
fertilised eggs resulted in a successful pregnancy. In our downtimes
from IVF I have tried everything imaginable to improve our chances of a
viable pregnancy, herbs, weight loss, acupuncture, all to no avail.
So
the time had come to accept that the premature ovarian failure was
holding us back from the family we are so desperate for. My friend
offered to donate her eggs so she cycled for us in Feb 2009 and gave us 3
chances at becoming parents unfortunately we got 2 BFN and an Ectopic
pg which totally devastated all of us, I took awhile to recover from
this as it was a very unpleasant ,drawn out experience . My friend then
decided to cycle for us again Dec 2010 which turned into a total
disaster no thanks to our clinic. I will always be grateful for what my
friend has done for us she is a true angel in my eyes. Basically after
this cycle we ran out of money to keep trying so we have been on an
extended break UNTIL my mother has kindly offered to help us if needed
to pay for another cycle. So Braulio & I think it is time to again
try and find our donor angel as we just want the best opportunity
possible after all the heartache we have endured..
Therefore,
we are asking for the help of a wonderfully generous angel to donate
eggs to help us achieve our dream. I ask you to remember the first time
you looked into your child’s eyes and knew you life would never be the
same again, the first time they put their arms up for you to gather them
in your embrace, watching those first unsteady steps towards you… these
are the things we want in our lives. We are even desperate for the
morning sickness, sleepless nights and poopy nappies… we just want a
child to love and adore. The only question remaining now is, are you the
angel we are looking for?
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